Learn to love whatever is happening to you.
Live for the experience. Don’t live for comfort or for an easy Life. Don’t live hoping for no problems. Don’t live expecting something or the other. Expectations always bring agony when they are not met! Just live for the experience. And you will always live happy!
If you examine the source of all your unhappiness, it always boils down to one thing. Your Life is not what you had expected it to be, therefore, you are not happy! Now, where does this thinking come from? Perhaps, from a naïve perspective – from a futile expectation that you were created to live in comfort, in the security of a good job, an assured income, an ever-present and ever-caring family, meaningful relationships and to be in perpetual good health. Nothing can be farther from the truth and you cannot be more ill-informed. When did Life guarantee any of these ‘ideal’ conditions or anything that you want? Life guarantees only the experience of this one lifetime. And it is within this experience that we must find happiness.
So, the simplest way to live will be to experience and savor each moment, each phase, each episode in your Life. Some of it to your liking. Some of it not to your liking. But whatever it is, know that it is always what it is!