Joy has to be experienced in and with what is!

If you are confused about Life, you are normal. And you are not alone.
Everyone is confused about Life at some time or the other. Some even spend an entire lifetime being confused. If you are confused about the reason for your creation not being known to you, relax. If you are confused about your career or why a certain relationship is not working out, chill. If you are confused why your child does not behave the way you want her to, just let go. So, don’t try to demystify Life. Don’t try to apply complex formulae to solve this puzzle. Someone aptly said: “Confusion is like fertilizer. It feels like crap in the beginning, but nothing can grow without it.” 

On the other hand, try to go beyond the confusion and simplify Life. By finding joy in what you have instead of pining for and chasing what you don’t have. Know that joy cannot be pursued. It has to be experienced in and with what is! By making simple, yet important choices: If you don’t know why you are here on this planet, stop vexing over it. Know that your creation has a purpose and it will find you soon. If you don’t like what you are doing, don’t do it. Simple. But stop agonizing over the possible fallout of your decision or stop cribbing about your job. Any problem in Life has to be dealt with straight and simply. With problems there are only two ways; you can either solve a problem or you can’t solve it! If you can solve a problem, why worry about it? And when you can’t solve a problem, why worry about it again? Just learn to accept it as there is no point in complaining about it. See, now, isn’t Life clear and simple? 

Author: AVIS Viswanathan

the happynesswala - Inspired Speaker, Life Coach and Author of "Fall Like A Rose Petal"; Inspiring 'Happyness'!

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