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Learn to pray for your detractors

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on July 31, 2021Format ImageCategories AVIS on Happyness, AVIS on Leadership, Equanimity, Happiness, Life Lessons, Prayer, Spirituality, the happynesswalaTags Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Detractors, Equanimity, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Happiness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Life Lessons, Love, Prayer, Spirituality, the happynesswala, the happynesswalasLeave a comment on Learn to pray for your detractors

The power of practicing silence periods – daily

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on May 22, 2021Format ImageCategories AVIS on Happyness, AVIS on Leadership, Equanimity, Happiness, Life Lessons, Mouna, the happynesswalaTags Anti-Virus, Anxiety, Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Fear, Greed, Guilt, Happiness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Jealousy, Life Lessons, Meditation, Mouna, Self-Pity, Silence Periods, the happynesswala, the happynesswalas, WorryLeave a comment on The power of practicing silence periods – daily

Do we really need religion if all it does is alienate us from each other?

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on September 21, 2019Format ImageCategories God, Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Religion, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Fear, God, God-fearing, God-loving, Happiness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happiness, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Religion, Spirituality, the happynesswala, the happynesswalas, UncategorizedLeave a comment on Do we really need religion if all it does is alienate us from each other?

Nothing liberates you as much as forgiveness does!

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on September 19, 2019Format ImageCategories Forgiveness, Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Non-Suffering, Pain, Spirituality, Suffering, UncategorizedTags Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Happiness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Let Go, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Move On, Non-Suffering, Pain, Spirituality, Suffering, the happynesswala, Uncategorized, UnclingLeave a comment on Nothing liberates you as much as forgiveness does!

If you don’t pick up the humiliation, it doesn’t belong to you…

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on July 15, 2019July 15, 2019Format ImageCategories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Acrimony, Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Equanimity, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Happiness, Happyness, Hatred, Humiliation, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happiness, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Spirituality, the happynesswala, UncategorizedLeave a comment on If you don’t pick up the humiliation, it doesn’t belong to you…

Forgiveness is about you, for you!

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on July 10, 2019Format ImageCategories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Anger, Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Forgiveness, Grief, Happiness, Happyness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happiness, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Spirituality, the happynesswala, UncategorizedLeave a comment on Forgiveness is about you, for you!

Forgiveness unburdens you

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on June 1, 2019Format ImageCategories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Bitterness, Don't Cling On, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Forgiveness, Happiness, Hate, Hatred, hurt, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happiness, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Let Go, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Miserable, Misery, Move On, Non-Suffering, Pain, Spirituality, Suffering, the happynesswala, Uncategorized, UnclingLeave a comment on Forgiveness unburdens you

Loving is a present continuous feeling, not a one-time event

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on May 27, 2019Format ImageCategories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Compassion, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Forgiveness, Happiness, Hatred, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happiness, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Love, Loving, Patience, Spirituality, the happynesswala, UncategorizedLeave a comment on Loving is a present continuous feeling, not a one-time event

Why Happiness is an intensely personal choice…

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Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on April 13, 2019Format ImageCategories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags Anger, Art of Living, AVIS on Happyness, AVIS Viswanathan, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Grief, Guilt, Guilty, Hatred, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Jealousy, Life, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Life Lessons, Life Quotes, Pain, Personal Leadership, Sadness, Spirituality, Suffering, the happynesswala, Uncategorized, Unhappiness1 Comment on Why Happiness is an intensely personal choice…

Why we are OK with being #Rajnified but are not OK with being #Krishnafied

Saturday last week started with Vaani and I watching the “Petta” trailer. To us, there was nothing remarkable about it – except that he is most likely playing his age; it had all the trappings of the film ‘Rajnifying’ the audience though!

And Saturday ended for us with a spectacular, out-of-this-world, T M Krishna concert; his only live performance this Margazhi!

As #BlissCatcher Sriram Ayer (Season 1, Oct 2015), of NalandaWay, introduced the concert, he talked about how much venom had been spewed on social media over Krishna, over NalandaWay, and over the two partnering for this concert’s cause, to raise funds for the Chennai Children’s Choir. I had read some of those comments as they appeared on my timeline. They were not just distasteful, they were pathetic; they showcased how much our society – the educated lot, mind you – has got stuck with the insipid discourse on religion, caste and hatred, all of this in the name of ‘protecting and preserving culture and tradition’.

As I sipped my coffee on Sunday morning, I asked myself why do we, as a people, think it is OK being #Rajnified while it is not OK being #Krishnafied?

I guess the answer lies somewhere between what we can’t do – being like Rajnikanth – and what we don’t want to do – being like Krishna.

Rajni is an actor, a Superstar – everyone clearly cannot be that! His screen persona feeds our wannabe sentiment somewhere. We can’t be that, so we drool over him; we celebrate even his most mediocre efforts in the name of keeping his Superstardom alive – for our own aspirational needs! We can’t be that, so we need him, even if he is inaccessible and very, very distant! (PS: Having said all this, I must confess I respect Rajni for the person that he is – humble and sincere; I only wish he was not trapped in his on-screen image and truly explores his fullest potential as an actor!)

Krishna, on the other hand, is like you and me – he is ordinary, accessible, and has the guy-next-door persona. Yet, he has done what many out there don’t dare to do – not that they can’t, but they don’t want to – which is, he has followed his bliss, music; he asks questions on why irrelevant tradition must not be dumped, he works with change-makers to democratize the art form, he pauses and asks important, must-be-asked, questions to the government and, most significantly, he chooses to be himself. He has chosen not to be trapped in society’s image of who a musician must be or what a musician must do. Now, all of what Krishna is doing can be done by anyone. But people don’t want to do it. So, they spew venom; they find it easier to hate someone, who is like them, who has broken ‘tradition’!

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But the beauty is, as Sriram pointed out, 1200 people made the pilgrimage to the Mutha Venkatsubbarao auditorium on Saturday evening, to show that love and unity can thrive in an environment where hatred appears to be extending its vice-like grip. And, I believe, whoever was there that evening, loved Krishna’s concert.

I surely did.

As I see it, Krishna’s is not even a music performance; he is not performing because he has an audience; or that he has to perform ‘for’ the audience. He is not in music for the living; he is living for – and because of – his music. So, whenever he sings, he is exploring the spiritual depths of ‘his’ art. How else could he have combined two (as it appeared to me) different compositions where he sang about 1. weeping inconsolably and 2. the Lord’s lack of compassion? How else could he have taken all ‘his’ time to delve into the magic and beauty of ‘Srirangapura Vihara…’? How else could he have so seamlessly blended with – the surprise of last evening – the Chennai Children’s Choir to deliver such inspiring, elevated, renditions, including the closing piece, Tagore’s ‘Momo Chitte…’ in beautiful Bangla?

In Krishna’s daring to be who he is, he is not saying that only he can do it. He invites us as a society, as people, to debunk hollow beliefs and traditions; he is suggesting, if he can, you too can: you too can partner in creating an inclusive society, where religion, caste and art are not held hostage by a few as if it were their fiefdom; you too can look at the Emperor, like that metaphorical child in the fable, and say “No clothes!”; you too can be who you want to be – and not be stuck in society’s definition of who they want you to be!

I am reminded of Rumi’s immortal line: “When you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy!” Vaani and I live – despite our circumstances – doing things from our soul, so we know what it is to feel that river move in us; I am sure, Krishna feels that river moving in him too…

And so, I believe, you can feel it too…you don’t have to even be #Krishnafied, just be #Youfied…love yourself, celebrate yourself, be yourself, be happy…and let us together stop feeding and/or spreading hate…

My Standard Disclaimer applies: I have no knowledge of classical music (so, I have no learned/rasika point of view to offer a comment on anyone’s performance)…all I share here is what I have felt of what was sung or said.  

Author AVIS ViswanathanPosted on December 31, 2018December 31, 2018Categories Happiness, Inner Peace, Intelligent Living, Life, Spirituality, UncategorizedTags #Krishnafied, #Rajnified, Art, AVIS Viswanathan, Bliss, Caste, Chennai Children's Choir, Fall Like A Rose Petal, Happiness, Hatred, Hindutva, Inner Peace, Inspiring Happyness, Intelligent Living, Joseph Campbell, Karthik Subburaj, Life, Love, Madras Music season, Margazhi, NalandaWay, Nawazuddin Siddiqui, Petta, Rabindranath Tagore, Rajnikanth, Religion, Spirituality, Sriram Ayer, Srirangapura Vihara, T M Krishna, the happynesswala, Trolls, Uncategorized1 Comment on Why we are OK with being #Rajnified but are not OK with being #Krishnafied

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