Life simply happens – you complicate it by labeling events per your expectations.
“I don’t deserve this s**t in Life,” declared a lady the other day while sharing how tough her Life was – single parenting, a stressful job, mounting expenses and a family that refused to understand her. She wanted to know how someone could create a Life they truly deserve.
There’s only one way to do this. You must expunge the word ‘deserve’ from your Life, you must stop seeking deservance and you must drop all expectations. The truth about all our lives is that no one deserves s**t, yet s**t happens to all of us!
Having said that, I want to clarify that defining something in your Life as s**t is a very human thing to do. Life itself does not label any of its happenings. It just keeps on happening. Just because you don’t like what’s happening to you, because you don’t want it in your Life, you label it as s**t. The moment you label something as bad or ugly, suffering sets in. Instead see Life as an endless series of events. Don’t call it by any name – don’t say such-and-such event is good or say that something else is bad. Just take each event as it comes and deal with it. This is how you expunge this idea of deservance from your mind, from your Life. When you don’t put conditions on Life, it can never haunt you. Simple.
There is only one way Life works. It simply goes on happening. So, take everything in your stride. And be accepting of whatever comes your way. Everything you do, do it as an offering to a higher energy. Don’t let your mind talk to you about what you deserve. If it does, take your mind off that expectation. If you let it grow, it will make your Life miserable. Drop the very idea that you deserve anything. In fact, your greatest wealth, what you truly deserve, has already been given to you – this lifetime, in this human form. Just be happy and content with it. Then nothing will seem like s**t and no s**t will happen or disturb your inner peace!